Navigating Change to Level Up

Change is that unpredictable friend who shows up unannounced, turning your well-organized plans into a whirlwind of surprises.

Annoying, right?

But what if I told you this friend could actually be your ticket to growth, authenticity, and a life that truly aligns with your values?

Change is like the universe's way of saying, "Hey, there's more magic out there for you if you're willing to shake things up a bit."

When you're not completely happy with where you're at, it's okay to own it and take action to get closer to what you do want.

Otherwise, you end up settling. Remember settling and compromising are two different things.

Compromise won't throw you into an identity crisis, but settling?

Oh, that's like inviting unhappiness over for a permanent stay. Compromise doesn’t feel like it’s hurting you to your core or going against who you are or your values.

And trust me, my values are sacred. They're my North Star, guiding me through this wild journey.

Sometimes, we confuse our beliefs with our values.

Beliefs? They're like those flimsy umbrellas, while values are the solid foundation beneath our feet. When change taps on your shoulder, lean on your values—they're your rock.

Let's rewind a bit. Change comes in all shapes and sizes. There are changes we welcome with open arms (new hair, who dis?), and others we'd rather dodge (goodbye, comfort zone).

But the more we wriggle and squirm, the harder change bites back. So, it’s best to just embrace the change as it comes.

Remember that moment when you felt you've outgrown your current space? Maybe it's your job, your circle, or even a pair of jeans that no longer sparks joy.

That's your cue to level up!

Change isn't the villain—it's the hero that helps you rewrite your story, set higher bars, and hell, even reinvent yourself.

Ignoring change won't make it vanish. Instead, it's like procrastinating on a major life upgrade.

And let's be real, the universe is no gentle whisperer—it's a cosmic cheerleader pushing you toward growth. You either heed its call or get a cosmic nudge in the form of chaos.

And here's the kicker: Change isn't a solo adventure. It's your co-pilot, propelling you towards that vibrant life you've always dreamed of.

So when change strolls in with its suitcase, invite it to stay a while. Brew some tea or grab a glass of wine, and together, craft a plan that aligns with your values. Oh, and be kind to yourself—this journey isn't for the faint of heart.

So how do we navigate change in a way that’s aligned with our values, authentic self, and personal growth aspirations?

Here’s my framework for dealing with change:

• Recognize change is a part of life, it’s natural

• Write out what you’re afraid of happening with this change. What is the story you’re telling yourself? Now is it ultimately true?

• Ask yourself “So what?” for each point. Decide whether you want to fight to keep something that doesn’t align with you anymore or expand

• What is the NEW, Upgraded Truth or Belief system that you are ready to embody? Write out the new story for yourself in your journal and make it fun.

• Write a few affirmations to support your new story

• Be kind to yourself throughout the process

This framework has helped me overcome many fears and doubts about change and embrace it as an opportunity for growth and joy.

So let's toast to change—our ticket to growth, the catalyst for authenticity, and the driving force behind a life that harmonizes with our values.

Remember, if you're not growing, you're standing still. And you are destined for so much more.

Sending you all the courage to embrace change! ✨

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